The KIND Collective

A monthly membership space designed for parents of kids who are having a hard time (aged 2-7years), so you can transform even the trickiest of challenging behaviours and bring back more play, peace and purpose into your home.

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  • My entire library of workshops that will help you understand what is beneath your child's trickiest behaviours so you can create more ease and magic in your everyday mothering (best for 2- 7 year olds)
  • My best selling programs like Step Up April, where I shared daily stories of how I implement these ideas into my real life
  • An entire program that guides you through your own triggers and unconscious fears so you can learn how to manage your own emotions
  • Guaranteed responses to your questions and scenarios inside of our community forum
  • Monthly Live Q and As with me
  • Just $27USD per month (or $40AUD), cancel anytime
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All with Instant and Easy Access on our Raising Humans Kind App

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You've committed to doing things differently.

No punishments. No rewards charts. No artificial consequences.

You're choosing connection over control.

And some days? It works beautifully.

But then there are the other days.

When despite all your conscious choices and gentle words...

Your child is still:

Struggling with overwhelming emotions

Showing aggression towards themselves or others

Reacting intensely to simple transitions

Battling anxiety that seems to grow, not fade

Finding everyday moments increasingly challenging

And that pit in your stomach keeps whispering that something's missing.

You've read the books.

You know the scripts.

You understand the theory.

But in those real, raw moments when your child is having a hard time, something isn't clicking. And you're starting to wonder:

Is respectful parenting not working for us?

Am I doing something wrong?

Why isn't this creating the change my child needs?

That nagging feeling that something's missing?

It's not telling you to abandon your values.

It's not telling you to resort to punishments or rewards.

It's actually inviting you to go deeper.

This is exactly why I created The KIND Collective: the place to bridge the gap between understanding respectful parenting and living it.

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This is what the parents inside have to say...
Yes Please

I want this for my family too

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Hi! I'm Ashleigh...

I'm a registered Family Psychologist with over a decade of experience serving families all around the world.

And despite all my knowledge, I too, faced a season where I was parenting a kid who was having a really hard time. I searched and searched for answers but kept coming up with the same suggestions - you just need to be more regulated! Try special time!

I was frustrated and exhausted and felt like absolutely no one could help. This is when I came across Dr Gordon Neufeld's concept of a stuck child.

Despite all my emotionally aware parenting, I was parenting a stuck kid who was not expressing his emotions in the way that was needed.

I have since dedicated thousands of hours to understanding why some kids get off their developmental track and exactly how to get them back on.

And this is what this space is about.

Getting stuck kids back on track with the simple but foundational practices of deep connection, emotional attunement, family healing, self compassion and play.

Yes!
More from the families on the inside...
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The K.I.N.D Collective is an online membership space and for $27USD per month, you can access:
A Library of Workshops and Classes
Access an entire library of classes and workshops that will help you uncover your child's fundamental needs, the way to adjust your environment to help them thrive and the fundamental teachings that will help you navigate your own emotions and triggers.
A Private Forum for Questions
Drop your questions and scenarios inside our private forum (connected in the same App as your library of content) and have myself, or one of the other two community mentors, guide you to find a solution or an approach that will work for your family.
Real Life Stories and Examples
Explore the member's only podcast or the month of audio trainings inside Step Up April where I share how I have lived out the ideas and concepts inside of the membership. The stories help you unpack and integrate the concepts more deeply and thoroughly.
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Instantly access hundreds of dollars worth of my best selling workshops

Beneath the Aggression ($59)
Beneath the Behaviour ($99)
Beneath the Fear ($59)
Healing at Home ($59)
Rethinking School Refusal ($27)
8 Steps to Managing Anxiety ($27)
Feeling Fables ($59)
INSTANT ACCESS
Topics already covered inside:
  • Independent Play
  • Playful Parenting
  • Chores and Contribution
  • Reducing and Releasing Emotions
  • Alarm and Anxiety
  • Aggression and Frustration
  • School Refusal
  • Healing from Trauma
  • The ART of Conscious Repair
  • Play Dates and Social Interactions
  • Storytelling to Change Behaviour
  • Differing Parenting Perspectives
  • The Mental Load of Mothers
  • Triggers and Unconscious Fears
  • Night Weaning
  • Emotionally Mature Parenting
  • Intimacy in Marriage
  • Sibling Dynamics
  • Snatching and Sharing
  • Diagnoses and Stuck Kids
  • Simplicity
  • Gut Health and Behaviour
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Learn the depths of your child's developmental needs PLUS dive into your own inner work and learn how to master your own emotions and experience.

I've worked with families for over a decade and I know what works. It's understanding the depth of childhood development PLUS understanding how to work with our own triggers and wounds. They complement each other, the serve each other and they are the two factors that make sustainable and lasting change in families.

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K.I.N.D Parenting

This approach will take you from the heat of your trickiest moments, to the heart of what matters most to your child.

KNOWLEDGE : understanding the developmental science beneath your child’s behaviour
INTUITION : tune in to your own intuitive confidence as a parent instead of using scripts
NURTURE : keep connection and attachment at the centre of everything you do

DEPTH : go deep into your own inner work and explore your own inner world and triggers

THE K.I.N.D COLLECTIVE
DOORS ARE OPEN NOW!

The K.I.N.D Collective Membership requires no commitment - it's absolutely no strings attached.

You can hang out with us for one month or stick around and embed yourself amongst this group of incredible women as we grow together.

Cancelling is as easy as 2 clicks of a button.

U.S. DOLLAR PLAN

US$27

PER MONTH
  • Instant Access to 100+ Trainings!
  • All Top-Selling Workshops ($400+ Worth)
  • 24/7 Forum to Ask Any Question
  • Personalized Answers to YOUR CHILD
  • Live Monthly Calls w/Ashleigh
  • Renews Monthly/ Cancel Anytime
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AUSTRALIAN DOLLAR PLAN

AUD$40

per month
  • Instant Access to 100+ Trainings!
  • All Top-Selling Workshops ($600+ Worth)
  • 24/7 Forum to Ask Any Question
  • Personalized Answers to YOUR CHILD
  • Live Monthly Calls w/Ashleigh
  • Renews Monthly/ Cancel Anytime
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Frequently Asked Questions
This is a monthly subscription based model, so you have access to everything inside the membership only while you are enrolled. You can however, download the summary sheets and they are yours to keep so you can always refer back to what you learned, even when you are no longer a member.
You can cancel anytime by simply clicking a few buttons! You will have access for the time you have paid eg if you pay monthly and cancel on day two, you’ll still get access for the rest of the month. If you're unsure, you can always just email us and we will cancel your subscription for you no questions asked.
You can choose to be charged in USD or AUD however, you can use any currency. The payments are taken securely through STRIPE or Pay Pal and you will be charged only the equivalent of your currency.
Your first payment will be made the day you sign up. From there, you will be automatically charged every month on the day that you enrolled until you cancel.
Yes you have access to a private forum where I and 2 other mentors will answer questions and guide you through any scenarios you feel stuck on. You’ll also get the wisdom and support from other like minded parents in the forum going through similar experiences. There are also live calls hosted by me that you’ll have an opportunity to join if you would like.
This membership is suitable for 2-7 year olds.