The KIND Collective

A monthly membership space designed for parents of stuck kids (aged 2-7years), so you can transform even the trickiest of challenging behaviours and bring back more play, peace and purpose into your home.

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Unlock instant access to:
  • My entire library of workshops that will help you understand what is beneath your child's trickiest behaviours so you can create more ease and magic in your everyday mothering (best for 2- 7 year olds)
  • My best selling programs like Step Up April, where I shared daily stories of how I implement these ideas into my real life
  • An entire program that guides you through your own triggers and unconscious fears so you can learn how to manage your own emotions
  • Guaranteed responses to your questions and scenarios inside of our community forum
  • Monthly Live Q and As with me
  • Just $27USD per month (or $40AUD), cancel anytime

All with Instant and Easy Access on our Raising Humans Kind App

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The K.I.N.D. Collective is for growth minded mothers who are navigating the unique challenges of parenting a stuck child.

Describing a child as stuck is a description Developmental Psychologist, Dr Gordon Neufeld has coined and is the most compassionate and helpful way of describing a child who is having a hard time that I have come across in my decade plus experience as a psychologist. It's compassionate, intuitive and actually helps us get to the heart of the matter.

Sometimes these kids are stuck in their fight or flight response.

Sometimes these kids are stuck in their relationships.

Sometimes these kids are stuck in their emotions because they have walls up around their heart to protect them from more vulnerability.

It will manifest in many different ways.

You might notice your child struggles to engage in self directed play and is constantly bored. They can't seem to create ideas from within themselves and are often searching for something or someone else to entertain them.

You might notice that your child is showing signs of anxiety that you can't seem to shift. Maybe they struggle to separate from you, they chew their shirt or bite their nails, they struggle to sleep and appear restless or agitated.

You might notice that your child is aggressive and you can't leave them alone with siblings or other kids. They're impulsive and the aggression feels hard to manage.

You might notice that your child is hard to lead and often resists direction from you. Perhaps it feels like they can't rest when you're taking care of them and always want to be in charge and in control.

If you’re parenting one of these kids, you’ve probably noticed that most approaches don’t go deep enough to get you from the heat of the moment to the heart of the matter.

This is where this space is different.

Inside I am going to show you a pathway to parenting these children that is rooted in developmental science. I am going to show you exactly what the fundamental needs are of these children and how to work with their deep sensitivities so that you can create an environment that will help them reach their full potential and grow into mature, self regulated adults who have the capacity for deep connection.

You won't find one size fits all strategies or scripts in here, instead I will show you the broader ideas and principals that you can apply to your unique family situation.

My mission is always to help you find a family centred approach to your own life, where both you AND your child can get their needs met and live a life you all adore.

A story from one of the Mums on the inside:

  • Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not promising this as a quick fix. Quick fixes and scripts and fancy tricks don't work for these kids. This Mum dedicated time and energy and so much compassion and consistency. But the truth is, this is the kind of thing that is possible when we focus on what really matters.

I want this for my family too

Hi! I'm Ashleigh...

I'm a registered Family Psychologist with over a decade of experience serving families all around the world.

And despite all my knowledge, I too, faced a season where I was parenting a stuck child. I searched and searched for answers but kept coming up with the same suggestions - you just need to be more regulated! Try special time!

I was frustrated and exhausted and felt like absolutely no one could help. This is when I came across Dr Gordon Neufeld's concept of a stuck child.

Despite all my emotionally aware parenting, I was parenting a stuck kid who was not expressing his emotions in the way that was needed.

I have since dedicated thousands of hours to understanding why some kids get off their developmental track and exactly how to get them back on.

And this is what this space is about.

Getting stuck kids back on track with the simple but foundational practices of deep connection, emotional attunement, family healing, self compassion and play.

The K.I.N.D Collective is an online membership space and for $27USD per month, you can access:
A Library of Workshops and Classes
Access an entire library of classes and workshops that will help you uncover your child's fundamental needs, the way to adjust your environment to help them thrive and the fundamental teachings that will help you navigate your own emotions and triggers.
A Private Forum for Questions
Drop your questions and scenarios inside our private forum (connected in the same App as your library of content) and have myself, or one of the other two community mentors, guide you to find a solution or an approach that will work for your family.
Real Life Stories and Examples
Explore the member's only podcast or the month of audio trainings inside Step Up April where I share how I have lived out the ideas and concepts inside of the membership. The stories help you unpack and integrate the concepts more deeply and thoroughly.

Instantly access hundreds of dollars worth of my best selling workshops

Beneath the Aggression ($59)
Beneath the Behaviour ($99)
Beneath the Fear ($59)
Healing at Home ($59)
Rethinking School Refusal ($27)
8 Steps to Managing Anxiety ($27)
Feeling Fables ($59)
INSTANT ACCESS
Topics already covered inside:
  • Independent Play
  • Playful Parenting
  • Chores and Contribution
  • Reducing and Releasing Emotions
  • Alarm and Anxiety
  • Aggression and Frustration
  • School Refusal
  • Healing from Trauma
  • The ART of Conscious Repair
  • Play Dates and Social Interactions
  • Storytelling to Change Behaviour
  • Differing Parenting Perspectives
  • The Mental Load of Mothers
  • Triggers and Unconscious Fears
  • Night Weaning
  • Emotionally Mature Parenting
  • Intimacy in Marriage
  • Sibling Dynamics
  • Snatching and Sharing
  • Diagnoses and Stuck Kids
  • Simplicity
  • Gut Health and Behaviour
Learn the depths of your child's developmental needs PLUS dive into your own inner work and learn how to master your own emotions and experience.

I've worked with families for over a decade and I know what works. It's understanding the depth of childhood development PLUS understanding how to work with our own triggers and wounds. They complement each other, the serve each other and they are the two factors that make sustainable and lasting change in families.

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K.I.N.D Parenting

This approach will take you from the heat of your trickiest moments, to the heart of what matters most to your child.

KNOWLEDGE : understanding the developmental science beneath your child’s behaviour
INTUITION : tune in to your own intuitive confidence as a parent instead of using scripts
NURTURE : keep connection and attachment at the centre of everything you do

DEPTH : go deep into your own inner work and explore your own inner world and triggers

THE K.I.N.D COLLECTIVE
DOORS ARE CLOSED UNTIL JAN 2025

The K.I.N.D Collective Membership requires no commitment - it's absolutely no strings attached.

You can hang out with us for one month or stick around and embed yourself amongst this group of incredible women as we grow together.

Cancelling is as easy as 2 clicks of a button.

U.S. DOLLAR PLAN

US$27

PER MONTH
  • Instant Access to 100+ Trainings!
  • All Top-Selling Workshops ($400+ Worth)
  • 24/7 Forum to Ask Any Question
  • Personalized Answers to YOUR CHILD
  • Live Monthly Calls w/Ashleigh
  • Renews Monthly/ Cancel Anytime
From the families on the inside...
Frequently Asked Questions
This is a monthly subscription based model, so you have access to everything inside the membership only while you are enrolled. You can however, download the summary sheets and they are yours to keep so you can always refer back to what you learned, even when you are no longer a member.
You can cancel anytime by simply clicking a few buttons! You will have access for the time you have paid eg if you pay monthly and cancel on day two, you’ll still get access for the rest of the month. If you're unsure, you can always just email us and we will cancel your subscription for you.
You can choose to be charged in USD or AUD however, you can use any currency. The payments are taken securely through STRIPE or Pay Pal and you will be charged only the equivalent of your currency.
Your first payment will be made the day you sign up. From there, you will be automatically charged every month on the day that you enrolled.
Yes you have access to a private forum where I will answer questions and guide you through any scenarios you feel stuck on. You’ll also get the wisdom and support from our mentors and other like minded parents in the forum going through similar experiences. There are also live calls hosted by me that you’ll have an opportunity to join if you would like.
This membership is suitable for 2-7 year olds.
This is what the parents inside have to say...